There were several questions posed to me in my last big update post which I felt were better answered in another post. Namely, Jared was curious as to how living in Thailand for a year has changed me. I’m not sure that I can adequately answer this question to be honest, but I will do my best. I am sure that many of the changes have taken place on a nearly subconscious level though.
I would say one of the main advantages of living and working abroad is it increases your flexibility. Within the first week or so, I found loads of little things in my new environment that bothered me. I had to learn to adjust to a new way of life that mimicked the local people. For example, I had a serious problem with taking taxis before I came here. I saw them as a gigantic waste of money, and I avoided them as much as possible. In Bangkok, that is nearly impossible, and it is foolish. Taxis are cheaper than alternative modes of transportation in many cases.
Living abroad also decreases dependence. This was not a major problem for me this time around as I had already lived in Sydney for a while, but I just thought I’d mention it for the general case. Two examples of this for me are Mt. Dew and NFL. I miss them both here, but I’ve learned to live without them.
In more specific terms though, I have changed the way I look at work and living. When I was at Rose, school consumed my entire life. Yes, I had some outside fun, but it was always there in the back of my mind. When I was looking for a job last year, I felt that I needed to find a career opportunity that would completely fulfill me. This, obviously, proved to be an impossible task. My list of requirements for a job was probably longer than my list for a wife.
Working this year as a teacher, though, has been a blast. I have loads of fun most days, and I have greatly enjoyed my life here in Bangkok. Having said that, I have several major complaints with my current company, and I could never see myself working here for a long period of time. So what gives? Well, I’ve simply learned that there is more to life than work, and a job doesn’t have to be perfect to be enjoyable.
Juvers asked me if I had any plans to work on alternative energy. Sure, I would like that opportunity, but if it never happens for me, I’m not that bothered. I used to feel that my work needed to impact the world, but I am more relaxed about it now.
Being more relaxed is another major change from this year. I am pretty content to sit on my balcony and stare at the view in the evenings, I do not get in as big of a rush as I used to, and I have more patience in general. Thais has a phrase, “mai ben lai”, and it means no worries or no problem. That pretty much sums up the culture. They just don’t get their panties in a bunch about anything, and I like that. Imagine Timon and Puma from the Lion King singing “Acunamata”, and you’ve pretty much got a grip on Thai culture. (That’s a vast oversimplification, of course.)
I feel like I’ve made strides this year in terms of social confidence as well. It’s obviously impossible to quantify this, but I just feel more comfortable meeting new people and interacting with others. It’s good to get away from engineering for a while.
I feel like there should be more, but I honestly can’t think of anything else right now. If I think of something, I’ll try to write another post.
In other news, my flight is arriving in St. Louis on June 3. I’m starting work in the Detroit area on June 16. If anyone is in the Herrin area during that time frame, let me know.


But still very cool.



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